Three years ago, the word Covid brought fear and dread. It sounded like a death sentence. Our family did everything we could to avoid it.

However, now that things are more lax and medical solutions are available, we have become accustomed to it being a part of our history. Covid feels like a distant memory, a time in the past rather than a present reality.

But after a family reunion trip to Disney, we came home with an additional souvenir we didn’t expect. Our son developed a runny nose but tested negative. I’ve been fighting a cough all through January but tested negative. I wasn’t surprised my cough returned with the cold snap last week.

Only when the walk-in clinic nurse suggested I test again did Covid really cross my mind. So, I tested. I’ve taken many tests before (all negative), so I was shocked when the red line lit up immediately. I had Covid.

Fortunately, I was able to get Paxlovid, which worked immediately. My husband has not been as fortunate as some of the normal drugs he takes do not play well with Paxlovid, so he’s had to tough it out.

Why am I telling you all this?

First, to encourage you not to become lax in caring for yourself. Danger is around every corner, whether it be a germ or a crack in the sidewalk.

Second, to encourage you to make intentional choices. Would I have given up last week celebrating with family for this week down with Covid? I had to think about it for a few seconds, but I wouldn’t. We made memories that will outlast me.

Third, so maybe you’ll understand if this isn’t the best blog post I’ve ever written. I swear the brain fog is worse than the cough or runny nose.

Fourth, and most importantly, I want this space to be real, without pretense. Contrary to many social media posts, my life is far from perfect.

This is a space to be real – for me and for you.

Comment: What do you need to be “real” about today? I’d love to hear from you, either by commenting below or emailing me privately at Maggie.bruehl@gmail.com.